Understand How You
Really Connect

Discover your unique connection style and build your partner's emotional security through consistent, meaningful actions.

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Everything You Need to Build Emotional Security

HeartsAlign helps you understand and practice the 5 connection styles to strengthen your relationship every day.

Emotional Security Score

Track how secure your partner feels (0-100%) based on consistency, variety, and frequency of your loving actions.

Weekly Suggestions

Get 7 personalized action ideas each week based on your partner's primary connection style. No daily limits!

Connection Streak

Build consistency with daily tracking. See how many days in a row you've completed loving actions.

AI Coach Comments

Get 210+ personalized tips with each suggestion to make your actions more effective and meaningful.

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Consistency
Track daily actions and build trust through regular connection
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Variety
Use all 5 connection styles to meet every emotional need
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Growth
Watch your security score climb with each loving action

The 5 Connection Styles

Everyone gives and receives love differently. Discover which styles resonate with you and your partner.

Verbal Affection

Express love through words

Express love through spoken and written words. Feel most connected through genuine compliments, encouragement, and verbal expressions of love.

Example: Writing heartfelt notes, sending encouraging messages, giving specific compliments

Connection Time

Quality moments together

Give complete, undivided attention. Being fully present, engaged, and focused without distractions.

Example: Phone-free dinners, taking walks together, shared hobbies, watching shows together

Thoughtful Presents

Meaningful gifts

Show love through tangible symbols that say "I was thinking of you." The thought and effort matter most.

Example: Favorite coffee on tough mornings, printed photos, flowers "just because"

Supportive Actions

Helpful deeds

Show love through helpful deeds. Ease your partner's burden through what you do, not just what you say.

Example: Handling chores they dislike, making breakfast, filling their gas tank

Physical Affection

Appropriate touch

Create emotional connection through appropriate physical touch. All the small touches that say "I'm here with you."

Example: 20-second hugs, holding hands, gentle back rubs, cuddling during movies
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Pro Tip: Language Variety

Using all 5 connection styles ensures you're meeting all of your partner's emotional needs. Try to use at least 3 different styles each week for optimal emotional security!

Loved by Couples Worldwide

Join thousands of couples building emotional security together

"The Emotional Security Score helped us see exactly how our daily actions were building trust. Game changer for our relationship!"

Sarah & Michael
New York, USA

"Weekly suggestions with AI tips are brilliant. We finally understand each other's connection styles and it shows in our bond."

Emma & Lucas
London, UK

"The streak feature keeps us accountable. Small daily actions have transformed how secure we feel with each other."

Yuki & Hiro
Tokyo, Japan

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